Avoid These Four Interviewing Mistakes
Who would want to undermine his or her interview performance?
Job candidates
do it all the time. If you're inclined to sabotage your job interviews, follow
these guidelines to make sure you fail. They'll guarantee you won't get the
job
you deserve. If your wish to sidestep these landmines, heed the advice that
follows.
1. Focus on negative thoughts.
You may be the best candidate for the job. But if negativity dominates your
mind, no one will discover what you have to offer. You may look professional on
the outside, but if on the inside you're bombarding your mind with cheap shots,
you're set up to fail.
To eliminate these threats to your candidacy, try these tactics:
- The day before
your interview, rehearse likely questions with a
friend. Ask for a critique. If it's less than glowing, rehearse until you seem
confident but not cocky.
- An hour before
your interview, study your resume. Review your
accomplishments, experiences and competencies.
- Half an hour before
your interview, take several deep breaths. Tell
yourself you've met tougher challenges. There always will be other interviews
for other jobs. Confirm your ability to remain cool under fire.
- Five minutes before
the interview, recite a verse or some other piece
from memory. It could be a corporate mission, the Pledge of
Allegiance--anything that clears your mind and allows you to refocus on your
objective.
It's important to recognize the stress caused by the "foreign" setting of an
interview, says Steve Conner, director of consulting services for Performance
Concepts International Ltd., a training firm in Rochester, N.Y. Recognize your
personal strengths, he says. Armed with self-knowledge, you can control more of
the interview and become an active, rather than passive, participant.
Take only life-affirming thoughts with you on interviews, says Linda Cambareri-Fernandez, a New York City psychologist in private practice. Review
your accomplishments and visualize yourself following the same pattern of
success with the potential new job.
2. Sound like everyone else.
Interviewers tend to ask the same questions. "Tell me about yourself"
is a common one. You won't stand out from the crowd if you reiterate your
resume.
How can your responses help you make an impression? Outstanding candidates
discuss what isn't on their documents. For example, this answer would
distinguish you from others: "I'm a non-conforming conformist. I'll conform with
the policies and procedures, regulations and rules established by the firm. But
if I'm ever asked to do something I consider unethical, I won't conform."
Dr. Cambareri-Fernandez says your unique style of speaking also sets you
apart. While you want to stand out, you don't want to seem bizarre. She suggests
mirroring others' behavior to make them feel comfortable. For example, you could
match your rate of speaking to your interviewer's.
3. Say what first comes to mind.
If you answer every question immediately on hearing it, you may create the
impression that you're over-eager or you don't take enough time to assess a
problem before offering a solution.
Some questions require a pause before you respond. However, pausing before
every question may make you appear overly cautious or even nervous. Some pauses
refresh and some proclaim a dull wit. Think of the question-and-answer process
as a continuum. You can answer most questions quickly by thinking about your
answer as the words leave the interviewer's mouth. Anticipate the second half of
the question as you formulate the first part of your response. To keep the pace
of your exchange flowing smoothly, try these tactics.
- Listen closely.
Often the kernel of your response is in the question.
If your nervousness distracts you, you might miss the point.
- Paraphrase to buy time.
It's the ninth-grade English-class essay
tactic: restate the question before answering. For example, if asked, "Why
might others find it hard to work with you?" you could say, "I've never
actually had anyone tell me it was hard to work with me. But if I had to
identify my own faults, I'd say I can become very involved, perhaps too
involved, with a project that interests me."
- Ask a question.
Seeking clarification buys time and you can fine-tune
your answer. Of course, try to avoid, "Could you repeat that question?"
4. Ignore interview protocol.
Interviewing has its own specific set of expectations and practices.
Appearance is important, but savvy interviewers don't overplay it, says Rob
White, director of materials for ITT Cannon, an electronics company in Santa
Ana, Calif. In these days of business casual attire, other issues take
precedence. Interviewers look for evidence of character and citizenship.
Providing an anecdote, for instance, mentioning how you handled a delicate
situation, can provide insight.
Mr. White also pays attention to a candidate's body language and his ability
to maintain appropriate eye contact. Further, he's impressed by candidates who
call or write to thank him for the interview and inquire about the status of the
hiring decision. Such actions, he feels, usually reveal the candidate's
interest
in the position. Ignoring this protocol is a surefire way to make sure you don't
get the job.
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